Anonymous asked: I'm 15 and I met a guy who is 17 we have been fooling around a lot and I think I'm going to have sex with him. I know it's wrong because I've only known him for a few weeks. He also doesn't want a relationship with me . I feel like I'm being desperate cause my friends think I'm being used but i'm actually throwing myself at him. I just don't know what to do because I really like him. Should I stop seeing him because I feel like I'm giving myself away to someone I don't even know.

Anyone can do something physical it’s important to put meaning behind what you do. Know that liking takes time to develop in which you really get to know one another and spend time together. Time generates feelings. You’re young don’t have sex that easily. Trust me when I say this, there will be a guy in the future that is worth it and that will treat you with love and care. And sex with him will be much better. Good things come in good time. And know your worth. 

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: Whenever I'm eating girlfriend out she won't stop moving. She's always moving around and gripping on my shoulders. I honestly didn't mind at start and i don't mind that she holds on to me so tightly but when she moves around so much i have to hold her down and then she won't even stop moving then and it gets hard to eat her out. She'll also start closing her legs, and i'll have to push then back out. She get's pleased way too easily, it's bothering me. I don't know how to stop her from moving?

Usually people don’t have a problem with that. It’s a good thing that she’s easily pleased by you. Just change the positioning that you eat her out. You and her should do the 69. Or you can have her sit on your face. Or you can have her stand up and you go under. There’s many other ways you can do it instead of laying down.

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: heey diana , so i recently had an interview at the hospital for a position that i really wanted. they only take 3 people out of 8 that applied and i feel like shit because she gave the people that went before me and after me a form and i never got one . I think that means i didn't get the position , and im really upset. How do i get over it ?

Hi! Are you sure that’s what that means? Ask around and make sure you know what that means, are you sure they didn’t forget to give you a form? If you really didn’t get the job, then it’s okay. It’s better to have tried, then to not have tried at all, you can’t get every job you want, one day you will get that position that you want. Sometimes people get it due to having more experience or knowing someone, so it’s all right, don’t think that it means you’re not qualified, they probably only need a few people but if they could choose more then , they probably would pick you :)

Best Wishes,

Diana 

Anonymous asked: Hi! So there's this guy that I like. We always hangout in groups and whenever I try to be kinda forward and initiate conversation he doesn't really seem into it. So I just kinda back off and talk to other people. Then, once he see's that i'm not trying, he'll come up and butt in my convo or invite me to join whatever he's doing. What is going on?! I REALLY like him, but i don't wanna seem clingy or seem like i'm not interested in him. I feel like there's no happy medium.

Know that liking takes time to develop in which you really get to know one another and spend time together. Time generates feelings. Maybe that guy is afraid to open up, just talk more. Give things more time. And if he sees that you’re not trying and he comes up to you then he’s saying he does want to interact with you, but he just doesn’t want to open up so quickly. So be patient. Give things time. Ask him questions at times, but not too many questions. Tell him stories about you, and maybe he has a story to share, talk about his interests and find something he loves to talk about.

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: how do you make out? i ve never done it before and i don't want to mess it up

Simply just follow along. The person you’re making out with, will be able to show you. Don’t be too aggressive, but don’t just not move your mouth at all. Follow along, don’t worry with practice you’ll get the hang of it. If you’re a girl, make sure you don’t use like sticky lipgloss and such. Use chapstick, make sure your breath smells good, and be careful don’t be the kisser with overly too much spit residue that’s unattractive. 

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: how old are you cuz u act like your like 50

Haha, I’m 18 :)

Anonymous asked: So I hooked up with this really hot guy over the weekend. He's my friends friend but we don't know each other that well. I got his number and I felt so good that night. But he hasn't hit me up since then....what does this mean?

If you have his number, then you can hit him up. He could be waiting for you to hit him up. But at the same time if he doesn’t hit you up after three days, then he’s really not that interested.

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: I'm always sad and have suicidal thoughts. I really want to get professional help, but I'm afraid of what my friends and family will think of me if they realize what goes on inside my head. I'm afraid of them never looking at me the same. All my friends leave me so I'm afraid to open to any of them because I know one day they're going to leave me taking my secrets with them...

If they care about you, then they shouldn’t judge you, they should be happy for you for getting help. A therapist can help you figure out why you feel the way you do. Getting help is for your benefit only care about how you view yourself. Realize happiness comes from within yourself. Definitely talk to someone that can help you. :)

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: My life is beyond boring and my friends don't act like friends at all so I have nobody to talk to about my problems. I've never been in a relationship and I just really feel like nobody cares about me and nobody ever will. All I ever do is beat myself up, really. I can't do this anymore.

Go out and meet new people, discover a new hobby, do things that you enjoy that make you laugh and smile, do things that you always wanted to try, you can spice up your own life you don’t necessarily need other people. Because happiness comes from within yourself. Others don’t prove your worth.

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: My friend "A" and I both have a interest on a story we read that we talk about sometimes. It's usually mentioned in front of my other friend "B", who hates it because it's constantly mentioned. Usually if "A" brings it up, "B" tries to change the subject. The other day "B" told me that they were sick of hearing us talk about it. I honestly think that "A" and I don't even talk about it that much. How do I talk to "A" about our similar interest without annoying "B"?

Hang out with friend A alone when you want to talk about your interests. And you wouldn’t notice if you talk about it a lot unless from an outside point of view, And it annoys friend B maybe because friend B feels left out or can’t really relate to it as much or is tired of hearing it. 

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: the guy I like asked me to prom and since then I dont feel as interested as i did. This happens to me all the time; i like someone alot and after they ask me out or show like they like me i loose interest. I realize its probably the chase im interested in but how do i get it to stop? Theres also these girls in my school who i hate and these guys they hang out with alot(one of the girls went out with one of the guys and she has a new boyfriend now but she wants him back) and I hang out with the..

Response in part two. 

Anonymous asked: yeah there was a part 2 to the last question2 you answered on 5/29 sorry.. i hang out with them too thought we're not as close as the girls and them are it annoys me so much how desperate the girls are to have them, like we needed to make groups for a trip and they like immediately called them. and in gym we needed teams for frisbee n they immediately went to them. i dont know why it bothers me so much more then my friends who are ont he same side as me but it doesnt seem to bother them as much

Know that liking takes time to develop in which you really get to know one another and spend time together. Time generates feelings. And yea you’re most likely interested in just the chase, it intrigues you and keeps you going, you don’t like to be bored, but you can find the chase even in a long term of liking. Get to know the guy and if the guy is interesting and fun to you there is actually in a chase in that, to figure out why he is the way he is, getting to know him on a deeper level, figuring out how he’s like, getting to know more of him because he’s interesting to you, all you need is a fun person and someone who has personality that’s all. And for those girls just leave them alone, however they seem has nothing to do with you, let them behave how they want to. 

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: I slapped my boyfriend yesterday, because he was being really really mean to me and i ended up crying and instead of trying to comfort me or the the arugument he started saying i need to stop being so sensitive because i’m acting like a little girl. So i got angry and we were yelling at each other and in the heat of the moment i slapped him so hard right across the face. I could hear how loud it was. I apologized but he’s ignoring me and i’ve begged and crying, but he still won’t forgive me.

You shouldn’t have slapped him unless he deserved it for example, if he cheated on you or did something that caused you to lose all respect for him, then you slap him. He’s ignoring you because you surprised him when you did and he doesn’t know how to feel as of now, but just let him cool off and I’m sure everything will be fine just let him know you’ll control your emotions better. 

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: soo, i need help.. I just recently broke up with my boyfriend we'd only been dating a couple weeks and things were great until like two weeks ago. He started pushing me away and acting weird and whenever i confronted him about it he just got mad at me so i gave up and ended it with him. He still texts me off and on but it's never anything serious just random conversation. We'll i regret breaking up with him and miss him, so should i text him and tell him or move on and let him go?

Maybe you two started dating too early and he wasn’t ready. Since he randomly talks to you. Start talking to him more. Have more conversations ask to hang out and interact more in person. Let it become consistent and after that has been going on for a while, then tell him how you feel.

Best Wishes,

Diana

Anonymous asked: So I have these razor bumps..I think? After I shaved i have all of these red dots/bumps on my calves and I don't know how to get rid of them? They've been on my legs for over a year now. Do you know any solution to this? Thanks!

If your razor bumps are picked or irritated and not taken care of then they can last longer. But since you said over a year I’m not sure, ask a doctor. Make sure the you change your shaver once in a while, also try using moisturized having cream and lots of it, and shave in direction of hair growth. Also apply lotion after you shave.

Best Wishes,

Diana